Disclaimer: I have realized from my blog stats that people want to hear about love, lust, and infatuation. This is why I have decided to address love or something of the sort in each blog. So if you aren't interested in reading about things of the sort, leave now.
- FUCKING AND LOVING: The difference and why both are important.
While personally I don't feel comfortable having casual sex, it seems to be seen more and more in women and men in their early 20's to be slightly normal. Who's to tell these individuals that is wrong? The topic of casual sex always brings one thing to mind for me... Sex and the City.
I live to believe that there is no timeline for love. You could have sex/lust over 15 guys before finding Mr. Right, while "Cindy" on the other side of town just sits around patiently waiting and doesn't find the one for the same amount of time. Who's to tell you that next Friday's one night stand wont end up being your soulmate? Or that that guy that you met in the bookstore and invited to coffee wont be the love of your life. As I have said before I do not partake in casual sex, but that's not to say that I don't understand it.
Health-wise sex is something that is needed for personal maintenance. That doesn't mean go out and sleep with just anyone. Remember there are also a lot of sexually transmitted diseases out there to worry about, so take proper precautions loves.
Now for the portion where we switch our focus to love.
"Love is just like someone waiting for a bus. When the bus comes, you look at it and you say to yourself "ooh...so full....no more available sit"."I'll wait for the next one". So you let the bus go and waited for the second bus. Then the second bus came, you looked at it you say, "eew...this bus is so old...so shabby!" So you let the bus leave and again, decided to wait for the next bus. "
This is pretty accurate when on the subject of love. HOLD YOUR HORSES. He/She is out there and they will be with you when it is fitting.
You will find the right bus, don't worry.
...also maybe you found the right bus, but you got off at the wrong stop. No one can know for sure that the bus wont come back around. So be patient. Breathe.